Tuesday, June 28, 2011

No Plans

I can't remember the last time Jean and I had nothing written on our calendars but today was one such day.  Our plan was to have no plan; we thought we might get to Crumsby's for coffee but the babe's napping schedule didn't allow it.  Instead we had a lovely stay-date in the garden: worked on Eliot's baby book while he practiced standing, crawling and pulling out the grass!

Helping to weed

Standing with Mama K

Enthralled by the camera case

More Bookish Thoughts...

On the Outside Looking Indian
I should have known that the latest gimmicky memoir would disappoint; nevertheless, I got sucked into the hype surrounding "On The Outside Looking Indian" and wanted to give it a chance. 


Rupinder Gill grew up in suburban Ontario, the daughter of traditional Indian parents who never allowed her to attend sleepovers, take classes or go to summer camp. At the age of 30, she vows to embark on a relived childhood in which she will learn to swim, hang out with her girlfriends and visit Disney World, all the while gaining enlightenment. In short: a veritable eye-rolling journey of self-discovery. 


Gill laments her lack of a "normal" upbringing (whatever that might look like) with whiny, shallow anecdotes about her stern but obviously loving parents. Her analysis of Indian culture consists of repeated cliches and often astonishing disrespect as she labels Punjabi "gibberish," insults her mother's cooking and pokes fun at her relatives' "deathly fear of sexuality." 

The prose contains engaging moments and elicits a few laughs but mostly meanders through tired tropes and unsuccessful, self-deprecating humour. Unfortunately, Gill's topic, which has the potential for insight and reflection, only serves as a vehicle to expose her own narrow-mindedness.

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Just A Little Off The Front

Eliot's bangs were starting to impede his vision so we took him for his first haircut today.  Of course, he charmed everyone at David Levi Salon and patiently tolerated the snipping around his face.  Thanks to his new buddy, Sam, for making him look even more handsome and for giving him her comb to chew ;)

The before - lookin' a little shaggy
The during - it's hard to keep still...
...but the comb sure helps!


The after - so much better!

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

A Clockwork Baby

The night Eliot turned three months, he slept ten hours in his own room; on his four month birthday, he rolled over for the first time; to celebrate six months, he sat up on his own; and today, at exactly eight months, our babe commando crawled forward and started to wave!  He's also clapping, making new sounds and feeding himself small morsels.  Will the fun never stop?

Gazing longingly at the Jolly Jumper

Coming forward

How big is Eliot?  SO big!

Sunday, June 19, 2011

More Bookish Thoughts...


"It must have been my mother, the cook, who was in the kitchen with the six burners and the two-bin sink...doing 'the bones' as my father called it.  But it was from him...we learned how to create beauty where none exists, how to be generous beyond our means, how to change a small corner of the world just by making a little dinner for a few friends."

So begins Gabrielle Hamilton's idyllic childhood in rural Pennsylvania, one centered around agriculture, artistry and an annual spring lamb roast for 200 people.  Such sublimity is shattered, however, when Hamilton's parents divorce and split the family in two.  The break-up impels her to seek independence, landing a kitchen job at age 13 and embarking on a lifetime of culinary adventure.

Blood, Bones & Butter waxes rhapsodic about food but reaches a much larger audience than just the foodie crowd. Hamilton has an M.F.A. in fiction writing and employs her scholarly, effortless style to evocatively describe surviving poverty in Manhattan, reconnecting with her estranged mother and visiting the south of Italy.    

At the heart of her memoir is Hamilton's decision to open her own restaurant (the famous Prune in NYC) in 1999.  Despite some disorienting gaps, chronological disorderliness and perhaps too much detail about her dysfunctional marriage, Hamilton provides an engrossing, tactile and aromatic chronicle of her experiences cooking and eating around the world.

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Standing Alone

Well, we have officially reached the stage of furniture standing. Walking, not to mention running, now looms in the near future! Definitely time to take the infant insert out of the Pack N' Play...

I'll ignore the finger prints...
...if you promise to sit once in a while!

Thursday, June 9, 2011

More Bookish Thoughts...

Hardboiled and Hard Luck
In her seventh book, Yoshimoto tells two stories of heartbreak, fatality, mysticism and grace.  "Hardboiled" depicts a haunted narrator on the anniversary of her ex-lover's death; after a solitary mountain trek, she experiences otherworldly forces that help her make peace with her loss.  "Hard Luck" features a woman whose sister lies in a coma and whose family struggles with letting go. 

Though less profound than Kitchen, Hardboiled and Hard Luck displays Yoshimoto's precision, her refined insight and her ability to find hope within trauma.  Her prose may be sparse yet her themes are anything but.

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Happy Birthday Mama J!

We all had a nice time celebrating Jean's birthday yesterday: Eliot and I took Holly for a long walk so that Jean could have a bath and go for lunch with Marna.  Then Jean and Eliot went to swimming lessons before my parents came over for dinner.  Eliot couldn't partake in the cake this year but he did thoroughly enjoy his arrowroot!

Post-dessert cheeks!

Button Boy and B-day Girl

Monday, June 6, 2011

Auntie Em

We've had a very special visitor since Thursday: our dear friend, Emily, who is soon moving from Seattle to NYC and starting Rabbinical School.  She and Jean took advantage of the lovely weekend weather and gave Eliot his first taste of the beach.  They took a pass on the Oak Bay Tea Party rides but we're pretty psyched about the ferris wheel for next year! 

My future's so bright...
...I gotta wear shades!

Friday, June 3, 2011

The Monster Mash

Eliot may have absolutely nothing in common with monsters but we love this shirt on him anyways.  Thanks to his bud, Owen, for passing it on!

Well?

Can we dance now?

It was a graveyard smash!