Friday, December 30, 2011

Water Baby

Jean and Eliot left for Whitehorse on Boxing Day and have enjoyed seeing friends and spending time at the cabin.  Eliot has even found the perfect remedy for those frigid northern temperatures: soaking in warm water!

Getting toasty in the bath
Family swim

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Joy To The World

Although Eliot technically celebrated his second Christmas today, he participated much more actively in the festivities than he did last year!  We went for a lovely brunch at my aunt and uncle's house this afternoon; then, my parents came over for gift opening and dinner.  The three of us feel extremely thankful for close family, friends, and the means to exchange generous presents.

Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night!

Christmas Eve Service
Checking out the loot




Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Photo Olio

I haven't had the chance to post any shots of Eliot in the past while; I'll blame it on a combination of days spent running after a 14-month-old and the advent of Christmas!

But here are a few highlights from the past month.  Most excitingly, we've discovered some fabulous new toys: crayons, the Swiffer and Christmas tree lights.

Helpful sweeper
Fun at Willow's Beach
Drawing at Crumsby's
Helping Mom make the house festive

Sunday, December 4, 2011

More Bookish Thoughts...

The Night Circus

Not since finishing Lori Lansens' "The Girls" in 2007 have I wanted to parade down the street with a book, thrust it into the arms of complete strangers and say, "you HAVE to read this."  Indeed, "The Night Circus" transports its audience to a world of seemingly endless mystery and provides a unique, transcendent and unforgettable experience.

The novel opens with a challenge between two magicians. "Prospero the Enchanter" pits his daughter, Celia, who has a natural talent for magic, against Marco, the orphan protégé of the mysterious Alexander.  Le Cirque des Reves provides the venue for this challenge, a warren of black-and-white striped tents, each housing marvels that surpass the imagination: a cauldron with a flame that never goes out; a growing, living garden of ice; a Wishing Tree; a beautiful magician who can bring books to life, and who vanishes at will 

Celia becomes a fantastic illusionist and joins the circus while Marco stays behind the scenes but each of their actions entwine and shape their binding challenge, a competition that turns into an intricate dance, a heartbreaking courtship and a magical dream.  But despite such thematic magic, Erin Morgenstern tells her story in rich but straightforward prose. Her linear narrative unfolds logically, systematically, and with control.  With neither excess nor embellishment, she introduces well-drawn characters who, despite possessing impossible ability, remain utterly human. 

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

More Bookish Thoughts...

The Marriage Plot

Instead of the three generations featured in Eugenides' Pulitzer winning "Middlesex," "The Marriage Plot" presents three individuals: Madeleine Hanna, an attractive, unconfident WASP; Leonard Bankhead, her on-and-off brilliant and brooding boyfriend; and Mitchell Grammaticus, a Michigan Greek who yearns in alternation for Madeleine and for God. The novel opens on the day the three graduate from Brown, returns to back story, then follows their first year in the "real world". Seeking sanctity, Mitchell heads to Europe and India; the other two keep house on Cape Cod, where Leonard studies yeast in a genetics lab and Madeleine applies to graduate school.

The novel contains a marriage but concerns itself neither with matrimony nor love; at heart, it is a coming-of-age drama that possesses the joys and pains of lived experience. With sympathy, modulation and deftness, Eugenides gives immediacy to Mitchell's struggle with spirituality, to Leonard's battle against mental illness and to Madeleine and Leonard's tenuous relationship.  But, despite a wry, engaging and beautifully constructed story, "The Marriage Plot" sells its characters short.  Mitchell's religious exploration grows tedious and ultimately gets dismissed as a sublimation of his desire for Madeline. And, though the novel's point of view alternates, Leonard receives only a single section before it virtually shuts out his voice.

Madeline, the supposed protagonist who initially seems to be on an interesting journey to maturity, eventually recedes behind Leonard's needs.  No journey comes to fruition; she never discovers her vocation, which leaves the reader unable to imagine her as an adult. Perhaps that's the point of this deconstructionist novel but, if so, such obscurity comes at the cost of a truly enjoyable read.

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Fall Beauty

After almost a week of no internet access (thanks to a dead modem), we have happily re-entered the 21st century!  Eliot and I actually enjoyed our off-line time and spent a couple afternoons outside surrounded by the late fall colours.

Central Ave.
Brighton Trail
Pemberton Park
Peek-a-Boo!
Eliot can't have all the fun!

Friday, November 11, 2011

11/11/11




Whenever I dig my passport out of its drawer, I become conscious of what the little booklet represents: privilege to travel the globe, and citizenship of a beautiful, safe and liberal country.  


Today, let us Canadians honour our veterans, the brave men and women who, from Vimy Ridge to Juno Beach to Afghanistan, fought and continue to fight for our freedom.

They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old:
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning,
We will remember them.
(Laurence Binyon)

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Hand Knits

Thirty odd years ago, my Godmother, Great Auntie Millie, knit me a collection of intricate sweaters, hats and mitts.  Many of the items now fit Eliot so he has a great variety of woolies to choose from just in time for the cooler weather.  

Auntie Carol's fine work
Peruvian sweater from cousin Josephina 
Great Auntie Millie's famous red bobbles

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Nana and Grandpa

Eliot has so far thoroughly enjoyed his grandparents' visit: outings to the park, a trip to the symphony, two birthday parties and trick-or-treating!  Unfortunately, Grandpa has postponed his trip to Thailand due to the disastrous flooding but, as a silver lining, he now gets to accompany Eliot on his first trip up to Qualicum Beach next weekend.  So much to look forward to!

Twirling the globe
At the library with Nana
Birthday puzzle
Helping Grandpa prune
Go Habs Go! 
Not too cold to swing!
Happy Hallowe'en!

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Party On

Because one first birthday party just doesn't suffice, Jean, Eliot and Nana hosted a Hallowe'en bash today for seven mom/babe pairs (and two dads!).  Mini cupcakes, creative costumes and lots of toys made for a fun-filled afternoon.

Two duckies
A rugby player, a pumpkin, a bunny, two ducks, a farmer...and a partridge in a pear tree?

Saturday, October 22, 2011

The Big One

A year ago today, Jean and I welcomed a strong-lunged and long-footed baby into the world.  Eliot has already changed our lives immeasurably by teaching us patience, sharing his laughter and building our community.  

Godmother Dawn and Godfather Paul hosted an unforgettable birthday bash this afternoon filled with warmth and celebration.  A heartfelt thank-you to them and to everyone who attended: you have truly touched our family with your boundless love and support.

Happy Birthday Button Boy!

Peeking through the banister
Cake by Mama K
Make a wish
First chocolate - yum!
Such generous presents

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Park Time

We've enjoyed beautiful weather for the first part of Nana's visit and have spent time at Anderson Hill, Pemberton and Redfern Parks.  I think Eliot's recent desire to climb over and onto everything has been satisfied...at least for one day!

Swings first
Now where?
Up we go again
Short break with Mom

Monday, October 17, 2011

More Bookish Thoughts...

Willpower

When during the day do judges grant the most paroles?  Who reports their eating habits more accurately, dieters or non-dieters? How does someone train to hold his breath for 17 minutes (and why would anyone want to)? What defines self-control?  In the fascinating and relevant "Willpower," psychologist Roy F. Baumeister and New York Times science columnist John Tierney elucidate new research on fighting seemingly uncontrollable urges. 

Together with intelligence, self-control emerges as the best predictor of a successful and satisfying life. But the authors neither advocate for resisting temptation by sheer force of will nor condemn those who give in as morally irresolute. Rather, they explain that willpower consists of circuitry in the brain that runs on glucose, has a limited capacity and operates by rules that scientists can reverse-engineer, thus compensating for its shortcomings.  Examining case studies such as Eric Clapton, a former drug and alcohol abuser, and Oprah Winfrey, the quintessential yo-yo dieter, and citing numerous laboratory experiments, "Willpower" offers a plethora of advice: don't try to tame more than one bad habit at a time, watch for symptoms of "ego fatigue," don't diet, block out temptation as much as possible. 

The authors largely appeal to evolutionary biology to explain their findings; neuroscience and economics take a back seat to human interest.  Thus, the book contains no discussion of elements such as likelihood of success, temporality and evolutionary impact, which all affect goal-setting and the degree of gratification following achievement of said goals.  Nevertheless, "Willpower" provides a rewarding read filled with insightful reflections on the human condition.

Friday, October 14, 2011

Casual Lunches

Our friend Peter recently introduced us to one of his favourite lunch spots: the deli in Victoria's Jewish Community Centre (3636 Shelbourne).  With reasonable prices on fare from vegetarian sandwiches and borsht to hot pastrami, gefilte fish and kugel, anyone can order a satisfying meal.  The eating area boasts a relaxed atmosphere and even features a sliding cupboard filled with toys and dress-up clothes.  Eliot enjoys them almost as much as the adults do ;)

After a great lunch

Sunday, October 9, 2011

Third Time's a Charm

Half Marathon Course

After two somewhat disappointing race results, I finally achieved a new personal best in the GoodLife Fitness half marathon this morning.  I ran 1:27:40 and came second in my age category, 27th out of 3229 women and 120th overall out of 5143 participants.  We had a beautiful day to run a lovely and fairly flat course.  Congratulations to all finishers in the three events!

Thursday, October 6, 2011

On The Move

These past weeks, snapping a clear picture of Eliot has become nearly impossible; he refuses to stay still for long enough!  He races around the house holding onto furniture, clamours up the stairs when visiting Dawn or Andy and rolls all over the bed while getting diapered.  But the most exciting news?  This past Monday he took his first step!  Watch out, wide world, Mister E is on the loose ;)

Up, up, up...

Almost ready to let go
 

Saturday, October 1, 2011

More Bookish Thoughts...

Perfectly Kept House is the Sign of A Misspent Life: How to live creatively with collections, clutter, work, kids, pets, art, etc... and stop worrying about everything being perfectly in its place.

I read about this book on my favourite decorating blog (www.remodelista.com) and heard the title quote speaking to me loud and clear! "A perfectly kept house is the sign of a misspent life" confirms that decorating "rules" no longer exist; a clean home that tastefully displays clutter can have just as much charm as one with a minimalist look. Using thoughtful, gentle prose and photos that come alive on the page, Mary Randolph Carter bares the soul of nine homes that inspire comfort through imperfection. 

Although the book embraces messiness and the "lived in" look, the profiled houses do belong to famous chefs, artists and designers. Refreshingly quirky, they certainly differ from those in House and Home magazine but are still too "picture perfect" for most homeowners to replicate.

Thursday, September 29, 2011

Social Butterfly

Between a morning exploring the outdoors at Gail & Andy's, an afternoon of stair-climbing at Godmother Dawn's and a walk at Royal Roads followed by a play-date at Jodi's, Eliot has thoroughly enjoyed his week!

Standing at Dawn's

Can we go up the stairs again?

Come and get the toy!

Such a comfortable mat!

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Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Table Manners

Many moons ago, Eliot's Mamas began spoon-feeding him from his bowl.  As he caught on to eating solids, he soon became adept at feeding himself morsels off his tray.  And recently, he achieved the height of civility: feeding himself from his own bowl!  

Hand to bowl...

...and hand to mouth!
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Sunday, September 25, 2011

More Bookish Thoughts...

The Cat's Table

I willingly admit that Michael Ondaatje's novels do not rank among my favourites; I found "The English Patient" melodramatic, "Anil's Ghost" tedious and "In The Skin of a Lion" only barely engaging.  However, when a Canadian literary icon releases a new and critically acclaimed novel, I have to jump on the bandwagon so as not to miss out.

During a recent interview, Ondaatje quipped that the story line of "The Cat's Table" consists of, "A boy [Michael] getting on a boat...and getting off a boat." Fortunately, the plot develops beyond such a reduction.  On a 1950s voyage from Ceylon (now Sri Lanka) to England, the reader meets three young boys who, free from adult guardians, find opportunities to spy, assist in burglary, smoke unknown substances, and speculate on human behavior.  A slew of eccentrics join these boys at their dining table, sharing world knowledge and personal stories: a tailor, a botanist, a burned-out pianist, a retired ship junker and a mysterious spinster.  A chained murderer, a deaf girl, an upper-class woman who largely neglects her role as Michael's caretaker and Michael's comely cousin complete the novel's cast of skillfully manipulated and mysterious characters.  Each personality harbours secrets, which emerge both on board the Oronsay and during the flash-forwards that dominate the book's latter half.

I have always revered Ondaatje as a poet for he has an incredible ability to manipulate the intricacies of space and time.  This skill shines in "The Cat's Table," producing a spare yet lucid story that engages the reader's intellect.  The storyline moves fluidly while the author leaves enough unsaid for his audience to play an active role in piecing together his puzzle.